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spekyspek
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Loc: United States
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Joined: 3/15/2010
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please help my relationship (Relationship)
Mar 15, 2010 3:10 AM
hello,
i found your site very interesting and thought you could be of greater help to me. i am 24 yrears old and presently dating a guy, 29yrs of age. we seem to be pooling on well when we are just two. but if i get to involve his sisters into it, it just becomes so complicated. he wants me to please his sisters most times and would not even care if it ends up not pleasing him. he always tells me our relationship can go well only if i am in good footing with his sister. his sister is head-strong and don't seem to appreciate the efforts i put in to be polite and try to treat her with luv. it really makes me sick. am confused and don't know what to do. please help me out with some advice. i have posted some question on www.answers.yahoo.com, and i haven't gotten the solution for my relationship. please do visit my questions on www.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArIimoKPa0e.ZzZDnkdK92AazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20100315015556AA0116m
and you will understand what i am talking about. thank you in advanve an wait on your advice.
kind regards
Speky
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Dave Fidel
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Posted on Mar 24, 2010 3:24 AM
Sorry he does not sound that great,
and it really depends on how much you want the relationship to succed.
It sounds like he needs to man up and take himself out of his chield hood family role, which is hard but we all have to do it. it will take awarness, determination and application.
he'll probubly get defencive it you are too forward about letting raising awarness but I'm sure you could get creative in giving him the hint. good luck, and stick in there if you think his the one.
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